Visit with Dad gone wrong

    The time came for bio dad to get some visitation.  Adam was SOOOO excited!  But as we are standing on the curb loading him into the mini van that transports him to visits the case aid gets a call.  Dad isn't coming.  To say that Adam was upset is the understatement of the year.  He went totally insane.  After 2 hours of screaming, crying, and destructive behaviour he finally fell asleep on his bedroom floor.  I called the lawyer, our new case manager, and my lisencing agent.  When he woke up he started the screaming again.  He does not want me, he does not want Jimi.  Any attempt to comfort him is met with kicks, bites, and punches.   When he spit in my face I set him down and walked away.  The case manager called in a crisis intervention.  Adam was unmanageable.  Everything was a fight. He would have major meltdowns that would last 40 minutes to an hour then get 5 minutes of peace just to have another meltdown.  Jimi and I very seriously considered giving up.  But he is only 2 and between the both of us we manage to make it through the worst two weeks of our lives as a family.  But we still asked ourselves " what were we thinking" almost everyday.